If you really have no clue about how to get everything in life, you are not the only one. Thousands of people are not sure of what they want and how they will achieve it.
Think about yourself first
You cannot realize what you actually want in your life till the time you are sacrificing your dreams, time and efforts for others. You need to put yourself at first place and know what you want. Just ask yourself that if you were not stuck between job, friends, family, home etc, then what would you be doing or what would you like to achieve in life. Always make it a point to put yourself at first place because till the time you will not know what you want for yourself, you will not be able to get it.
Figure out what you need
As we said above, know what you need. Sometimes it may be tough to find out what you exactly need. But just sit down and relax. Think of what you need badly and what are your dreams in life? Is it about your family, financial security, job, fame or what? Make a list of things you want in life and then go further.
Seize all opportunities that come to you
You need to remember the fact that success doesn’t come when you don’t take any action about your dreams and goals. Even when you have some clear objectives in life and you don’t take any action, you will definitely find it difficult to reach for them. Make sure you take the best advantage of every opportunity that comes your way so that you get everything you want from life. Don’t be greedy but at the same time, don’t be a lazy butt. Opportunities will not come as per your comfort, so grab them whenever they knock your door.
Let people know what you want to achieve
Just don’t keep your dreams and wants to yourself. Try to voice it out loud. When you tell people around you what you are trying to get in life, they will also start supporting you and provide you new ideas to achieve the same. Maybe some people would be of help to you while achieving your goals in life.
Getting everything in life is not sheer victory. Sometimes you will face obstacles and challenges but you need to accept the fact that success comes with learning from your own mistakes and by overcoming the challenges. You have to believe that even the most successful people make mistakes in life and they overcome the obstacles to go ahead and achieve everything they want. So, never ever mistakes disappoint or break you. Last but not least, success is actually based on your wisdom. Try helping everyone around when you can. Just don’t forget that as you started you were a scared creature too who had no idea what to do or how to accomplish your goals.